Our First Date

Hey Guys!
Last week I shared with you guys the story of how Me & Kai Met and It got a ton of  views
I'm glad my readers love an almost perfect love story as much as I do so get cozy and listen up because It's story time again today

Moki & Kai's first date

Now if you guys think I'm a hopeless romantic you've obviously never met my fiance Kai is the King of grand gestures. For as long as I've been with him which is basically forever he's made every holiday and special occasion truly romantic.

So I guess it's fitting that our first date took place at one of the most romantic places a first date could take place. The carnival, every year twice a year my school would host a fair they called "The bazaar" It was a small fair with a few rides that took place on the field at Our Lady of the Angelus School in Rego Park queens run by the church but we always looked forward to it especially at this age when we were old enough to go without our parents and with our boyfriends instead. 

I remember he picked me up and we went together, tons of my friends were there but to be honest, I don't remember who was there all I remember is me and him and how excited I was to go on my first date ever LOL. He was a true gentleman he paid for everything we got on all the rides even one that I had been too petrified to get on every other time I went to the fair. I remember riding the Ferris wheel last it was perfect it feels like a movie every time I think about it. 

But surprisingly the most memorable things about that night didn't really occur until the very last moments of the night. Right before we left the fair I remember him grabbing my hands and pulling me toward some game "I can't take you home until I win you a teddy bear" I don't know if he noticed me looking at all of the other girls running around with teddy bears, I didn't really care about it that much. OK yes I did so the moment he said those words he made my night I remember him playing that game where you have to shoot the water at the target to fill up a balloon he won and I got this cute little teddy white teddy bear that had green wings and a gold halo I loved that bear, and I still have him to this day. 

But the best part of this date wasn't until we started heading home, in order to get home from my school we had to cross a small bridge. I remember us being on the top part overlooking all the cars on the highway when he grabbed me and kissed me it wasn't our first kiss but it was still magical "Come on what kind of date would I be if I got you home late?" 

Those two moments sold it for me.I loved him and I couldn't help but feel he loved me too :) 

Relationships - The story of how Kai and I met

Happy Thursday everyone!

One more day till Friday and I cannot wait!
This week has been a pretty okay one if I can say the least I am still getting the hang of my new work schedule but this week I was able to make time to do the things I wanted to do as well as the things I needed to do and that's a good week in my book.

Today I wanted to talk about something that may seem a little random but due to the fact that Valentine's Day recently passed a lot of my friends and coworkers have been asking me how I do it. How have I been able to stay happy with the same person at such a young age? As if it is rocket science and yet I really have no answer to that question. Partially because it's not something I think about often I'm too busy you know actually being in my relationship.

But What I can do is tell you about how we met, it may not be the most remarkable or romantic story you've ever heard but to me, it's the Cinderella of all fairytales lol.

May 15,2009

Well in all actuality the story begins April 14, 2009, When fourteen year old me snuck out to a "Teenbash" with my friend Nia. Let the record show that I was never a party girl and to this day parties are not my scene at all but Nia talked me into it and I figure why not. See Nia and I were promoters for these "Teen bashes", we spread the word and sold the tickets and that's just about all the involvement I ever wanted but this time I decided I would tag along. Nia was always going to these parties so I figured it wouldn't hurt to check out what all the hype was all about. 

So we Arrive at this tiny little club in Astoria Queens, I remember it being a pretty gloomy day, it had rained earlier in the evening so it was kind of humid out but since the sun was setting it wasn't too bad. Nia and I got to enter the club before everyone else because we were promoters which really just meant we got to stand inside the doorway before they started letting everyone else in. 

And that's where it happened, we were standing in the doorway just talking passing the time when all of a sudden HE entered. It probably sucks that I cannot remember what he was wearing but if going off his wardrobe at the time I'm pretty sure it was something all black and some pair of Jordans. "I LIKE YOUR HOODIE" a deep voice protruded from behind me and just like that he was gone. 

"Who was he talking to?" I ask Nia she eyes me with this look that screams obviously you as she eyes my brightly colored purple and blue hoodie that zipped all the way up to the hood (remember when that was a thing?) 

Now I must warn you, the next part of the story makes me sound like a total B*tch but I was 14 and not completely comfortable with myself or guys for that matter so I apologize for my pubescent cringe-worthy behavior.

So we finally get into the club and you know how awkward teenagers are.there is that awkward few minutes where everyone just stands around because no one wants to be the first one to dance and have all eyes on them even in the dark lighting of a club. So the music picks up and people start dancing and before you know it everyone is trying to find someone to dance with. This is my number one moment of cringe.So here comes Kai walking all Rico suave like over to me and he asks"Do you want to dance?" and I told responded "um. no" That was my response UM NO! The man that I can now not live without asked me to dance and I told him no. 

But because the universe works in mysterious ways Nia ended up talking to one of his friends which got us bumping into each other again. And at that moment He shoves his Sidekick 08' into my hands with the AIM add a friend screen pulled up (Yes guys it was that long ago).Even though I told this boy no on the dance floor I still entered my AIM into his phone, To this day I cannot tell you why I guess I saw something in him from that night. 

So The night ended up with me and Nia getting in cab her dad called for us, taking it to her place and me lying in the bed her and her dad set up for me because at the time I basically lived there we spent so much time together. I laid in that bed all night signing in and out of aim just to get his attention. You guys remember the sound sidekicks would make when people signed off or on aim, it either sounded like a door opening or closing, yeah I was a little bit crazy but it worked LOL. We spoke a little bit that night and from that point on he's had my heart!